Anthony Robbins' 12 Reasons Why People Don't Get Wealthy
According to Wallace Wattles, in his popular wealth treatise
called the Science of Getting Rich, said that, "There is a
science of getting rich, and it is an exact science, like
algebra or arithmetic. There are certain laws which govern
the process of acquiring riches, and once these laws are
learned and obeyed by anyone, that person will get rich with
mathematical certainty."
It is true. Those who make wealth know that it comes about
by application of simple rules and principles. Those who
don't make wealth don't know about these simple things, and
so they assume that wealth is a result of luck or pure
chance or something just as superstitious or silly.
Anthony Robbins is one of the top success coaches in the
world, having coached star sports players, heads of states
and Fortune 500 executives. In his Get The Edge program, he
listed down 12 specific reasons he has come to observe to be
the leading causes for most people's lack of wealth.
Here they are:
1. They never decide and really define, very specifically,
what wealth means for them. The keyword here is
specifically. Can you imagine how hard it would be to build
a car or a plane without making a blueprint or sketch
drawings of it first? You have to know what your target is
before you go chasing after it.
2. They make wealth a moving target instead of a fixed one
(this is related to point one above). Once you have your
target, fix it. Don't change it until you reach it. You must
accomplish each step, celebrate, and then set course for a
new step, a new target.
3. They define it in a way that seems unreachable. You only
achieve what you believe. No more, no less. So you must make
it believable for you. Set goals that will make you move
forward and stretch, but not too high that even you yourself
don't believe you can. Take the biggest step you believe you
can, achieve it, then take the next biggest you believe you
can. This will build positive reinforcement in your
self-confidence as well.
4. They never start. Ok, this is obvious. If you keep
thinking about it forever, it will forever remain in the
thought level. You have to act! Start somewhere, anywhere!
Only after you start do you begin to get some feedback which
will help you plot your course better. The aircraft has to
first take off before it starts to adjust course for its
destination. You must start, somewhere, anywhere, doesn't
matter, just start! Act!
5. They never make it a must. Let me explain what it means
to make it a must. It means marshalling all your intent,
your will, your direction, into one singular flow that is
directed towards your goal. All obstacles are viewed as
challenges to be overcome. You will meet obstacles, and so
expect it, but also expect to move forward anyways. Use your
obstacles to develop strength and skills, don't run away.
Find out how to go past them. Find out! There is always a
way, always. And if your emotions are acting against your
desire, embrace them, learn what they are, know yourself,
but keep moving forward. Make it a must, and it will happen.
Guaranteed. You don't know in how many steps it will take,
but you know it will happen.
6. They don't have a realistic plan. If you want to do
something, find out how it is done from someone who has done
it before. Make a realistic plan. Copy from those who have
succeeded before you. But don't throw away your intuition.
Your intuition is extremely powerful once you learn how to
listen to it with practice.
7. If they have a realistic plan, they never follow through
on the plan. Well, if you don't follow the plan, who will?
8. They give responsibility to others ("experts") instead of
to themselves. This way, they never really learn how to do
it, and if there are failures they never learn why the
failures happened and so they are bound to repeat them. It
is a good idea to get advice, but do it yourself. At least
understand it yourself even if you will delegate the actual
doing.
9. They give up when they face challenges. Going through the
challenges is what has made people rich, not giving up.
Look, there are always challenges. So get used to that. You
will only get where you wish to get to if you are willing to
face the challenges along the path. All challenges are
opportunities dressed in work clothes, remember that. After
the challenge is over, you will discover the amazing fruit
it held for you.
10. They fail to conduct their lives as a business; they
never ensure that they make a profit year by year. Get a
personal finance package like Quicken or Microsoft Money.
you need to have budgets and cash flow statements for your
personal finances and your businesses. It is easy with those
software packages. If you don't keep records and track, you
wont know when you are making or losing money until it is
embarrassingly too late.
11. They allow other people's ideas to affect their
decisions unreasonably. There will always be people who
don't believe in your way, or who are pessimistic, who try
to pull you down, or whatever. And they will sometimes be
your closest friends and family. You cannot change that -
they have a right to be who they are. It is OK. Allow them
their thoughts, don't judge them for that, but don't feel
obligated to accept their thoughts of follow their way.
Don't allow other people, now or from the past, unreasonably
affect your decisions. Allow them their way, and you live
your way.
12. They don't get quality coaching. This is extremely
important! Coaching is simply getting mentored by someone
who has succeeded wildly in the area of your interest. Get
coaching! Our education system hardly equips us for real
life, so don't assume that because you went to college you
are properly equipped. Hardly. You need to keep learning.
The most successful people attend seminars, read books, join
mastermind groups and clubs, find mentors, network, and even
hire expensive personal coaches to make sure they succeed.
How many of these reasons can you identify with? Well, now
that you see the reasons, you now can look at yourself and
make sure that you don't follow ways that are known to not
lead to wealth. Follow what works and it will work. And
don't forget to enjoy yourself along the way. |
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