Anthony Robbins - Power of Questions
One of Anthony Robbins' tools is on the power of questions.
It is very simple to apply, yet many people fail to realize
the power.
Well, this might have happened to you or to your friends……
Imagine yourself at the beach, with the cool breeze gently
brushing your face and you can hear the soothing sounds of
birds chirping and the wonderful scenery of the sea
captivating your eyes.
Then at the corner of your right eyes, something caught your
attention. As you turn to face it, your eyes almost popped
out!
It is the most beautiful, most majestic 3-storey bungalow
house that you have even seen. As you continue to admire it,
you cannot help but to run towards the house to get a closer
view.
As you are getting nearer, you notice that actually there is
a banner and it says… “For Sale”. You have always wanted to
get a house by the beach and this particular house seems to
the dream house that you have been searching all these
years.
Then it happens…you asked yourself... “It looks expensive, I
can’t afford it.” With that, you turn around, with your head
and shoulder dropping, you walked away. Or should you say
this… “How can I afford this beautiful house?” Comparing the
two statements, which statement will drive you to take
action to achieve your desire.
Using questions or quality questions, we can actually manage
or turn-around a situation for the better.
“The quality of our life is a direct reflection of the
quality of questions we asked ourselves”. This is one tool
that you can implement immediately. It is simple yet
powerful and effective.
Always ask a better quality question. One that will empower
you, not disempower you. Another example, if you are
thinking ” I don’t earn enough.” Try changing it to “ What
has to happen so that I can double or triple my income.” Can
you detect a shift in your emotions?
Whenever you catch yourself asking disempowering questions,
just add the power phrase " what has to happen….”
For the rest of the week, write down disempowering questions
and convert them to empowering questions.
Bonus tip: You have to write out your thoughts with pen and
paper and not just thinking out aloud in your mind.
Reason no 1: More than 60,000 thought cross our mind daily.
By writing it down, our sub-conscious mind will pay more
attention to it.
Reason no 2: You can have fun with the process. After
re-phrasing it with empowering questions, cross out or
scratch the old disempowering question or stab at it a few
times. Then write the empowering question a few times. You
may get instant solutions or insights as you write and you
would want to take advantage of momentum to write down the
new ideas immediately.
Reason no 3: You can keep a journal and then write a book or
an ebook about your success journey in life.
Here are some quality questions that you can ask yourself
anytime of the day to uplift you: As you think of the
questions, recall them using all the five senses if
possible. Take a deep breath as you start.
Ready? Let’s begin.
- What are my some of my best achievements in the past?
- What are some of the best compliments or praises did I get
in the past?
- When was the last time that I had such a good laugh that
tears roll down my cheeks from over-laughing? |
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